From Mom, October 29, 2009

October 29, 2009

Dearest Favorite,

So Yeah I finally got those letters in the mail, I'm lame I know. I got your letter last night that Quincy wrote on. We got a kick out of that. Tell Quincy that I think he has very nice hand writing. HAHA. Well I'm still coughing up my lungs, it's in the upper area that I'm having problems with, same as Grandma. So we had quite a scare last night. Mike was texting me, (he's somewhere in Kansas right now) about how Ann keeps bugging him to get back together and stuff. He's like I don't know what to tell her. So I start texting him all the reasons why they shouldn't be together, some weren't very nice, and he pretty much resent them to Ann. Word for word. Ann gets all pissed and angry at Mike and sends me a text, saying she's gonna come and get the boys and all their stuff around 2pm, the next day. I texted her back asking why? and she sends me the text from Mike that I sent to him. So I'm like crap. How just like Mike to do that from so far away. So I start sending Ann texts asking her if she's giving up on all her plans, like getting her driver's license, GED, going to school, gaining her own independence, and all that kind of stuff that she and I talked about when she made plans to move to Eugene for her "fresh start". This was about midnight last night. Wes was all upset and wanting to run and hide with the boys so she couldn't take them. I'm like "she the one with the custody of them it would be kidnapping." So at about 12:30am Ann says that she's gonna go to bed and we end our conversation. I'm all depressed and sad and hoping that she will change her mind in the morning or after a couple of days. So then of course I can't sleep, so I'm watching Nick@Nike, Rosanna is on and it's about Roseanne's sister Jackie getting the crap beat out of her by her boyfriend. So it makes me cry and about 3 in the morning I fall asleep. I know that she was just doing this to get back at Mike for telling her that he didn't want to get back with her. So get this, Ann is still in town, she never left for Eugene. It was 5,5 days before I found out that she was still in town. No calls or text messages from her the whole time asking about her babies. I'm just floored. It don't seem natural for a mom with kids this young not to be the least bit curious about their well being. Ann knows Mike loves these boys so much that towards the end of the relationship he would only return to her to make sure they were getting cared for. Teddy Bear nevers asks for Ann, never. He asks for Mike, he even says it is his sleep when he wakes up a little. If he's in a sad mood Bear even calls me Mike. So to me that means Mike was the one taking care of Bear, changing diapers, giving baths, playing. Mike's the one he goes to when he need something. This morning around 11:30am, I sent Ann a text and asked her if she was still mad and upset. She replied back saying that she was gonna stick to the orginal plan. I can't remember if I wrote to you about this but on Friday. Ann told Mike that she was going to give him custody then later when she was visiting the boys, she told me the same thing, that she's giving Mike custody. So I told her once again that we have no problem working with her so she could get the boys for visits (that's when she was going to Eugene). So I told her the same thing again this morning, that we would make sure that she would be able to see the boys regular like. G&G had the same reaction as Wes, take the boys and run. But of course that wouldn't help the situation to panick. I told you the story about CPS being called on Ann when she lived at Prarrie View? So anyways it's another cold wet day here. I wish it was Friday, well I wish for sleep. haha. I love you so much. Say hey to Quincy for me. Stay out of trouble. love Mom. Tomorrow's Payday Yeah! Gotta buy diapers again.